1. Compliment three people every day. 每天赞美三个人。 2. Watch a sunrise. 看日出。 3. Be the first to say "Hello." 先向别人打招呼。 4. Live beneath your means.靠自己的力量生活。 5. Treat everyone as you want to be treated. 像自己希望得到的善待一样善待他人。 6. Never give up on anybody; miracles happen. 不要放弃任何人；奇迹总会发生。 7. Remember someone's name. 记住每个人的名字。 8. Pray not for things, but for wisdom and courage. 不要祈求得到什么东西，但可以祈求智慧和勇气。 9. Be tough-minded, but tender hearted. 意志要坚强，但心地要善良。 10. Be kinder than you have to be. 仁慈，再仁慈一点。 11. Don't forget that a person's greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. 不要忘记一个人最伟大的情感需要是得到别人的欣赏。 12. Keep your promises. 履行自己的诺言。 13. Show cheerfulness even when you don't feel it. 即使没有快乐的感觉，也要努力表现出来。 14. Remember that overnight success usually takes 15 years. 切记所谓的“一夜成名“”通常需要付出“15年的努力“”。 15. Leave everything better than you found it. 让一切变得更加美好。 16. Remember that winners do what losers don't want to do. 切记胜利者通常会做失败者不想做的事情。 17. When you arrive at your job in the morning, let the first thing you say brighten everyone's day. 早上到办公室时，先说一件能让每个人在一天中感到愉快的事。 18. Don't rain on other people's parades. 看到别人的辉煌时，不要抱怨。 19. Don't waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them. 抓住一切机会对别人说“我爱你“”。 20. Keep some things to yourself and don't promote havoc by hurting people you love. 自己承受一些事情，不要让所爱的人受伤害。