这完全是无礼粗鲁的英文说话,尝试在下列分析一下,以免朋友们被误导: If I were you, (you were not me). If I were in your position (you are not in my position) I d advise (why you advised me, why should I listen to your advice,. who do you think you are?) What is the meaning of weight up the advantage? is this a chinese english ?and why should I be careful when i rejecting your offer? I can't force you to make a deal, (of course you can not force me to make a deal, who do you think you are?) What is the meaning of " you don't want to souund pushy," chinese english again? and why should i have to decided soon? Do you understand that ....(why ?do you mean i am stupid and understand nothing and need you to tell me? I understand your concerns, but remember that the offer ends next week. ( You understand nothing, you think your offer is attractive and I have to remember that it will end next week?) You may trust me that any money spent now will bring you big profits in future. ( You teach me how to run my business?) What is the meaning of" reconsider the matter in some other light, "what is the meaning of some other light ?Is this an english expression ?or just a chinese english again) Isn t there any way to change your decision?( why you said that? if it is not reasonable , why should i change my decision?) this kind of saying totally rude and unacceptable. John QQ: 974372361